My resignation from N1 was approved last week. I will be moving in December after finishing my semester responsibilities here. So, from time to time, I will write about preparations for the upcoming move.
This week, I was back home for a few days to celebrate the festive season. I met some friends and relatives, who are happy about the upcoming move to New1 city and have generously offered congratulatory best wishes and lots of well meant advice. Most of what they say now is exactly what they said two years ago when I was moving to N1. For example,
"You will enjoy the intellectual/cultural atmosphere at N1 city,"
"we will certainly visit you there,"
"the traffic is bad,"
"you should buy a car and learn driving"
and, of course, the classic
"We know so and so over there. Here is their phone number. You must get in touch with them. They are verrrrrrry nice people."
None of the above, except the bad traffic, came to pass. I never really got a chance to enjoy the cultural atmosphere of N1 city, my relatives never visited me, I did not buy a car and I certainly never bothered to contact the people whose phone numbers were given to me. Not that I missed any of the above, but I do find it amusing that the above comments are being repeated verbatim!
But, one advice that I am taking very seriously this time is that of buying a car and learning to drive.
Ideally, I would love to just keep a bicycle and not have to worry about car maintenance, heavy traffic , parking etc. I managed fairly well with a bicycle at my postdoc locations and at N1, but this does not seem feasible at New1 city.
Strictly speaking, one could manage without a car there, but having one does present many advantages. For example, if needed, I can stay in the department till late to finish any important work without having to worry about safety issues and keeping a car does provide an extra degree of freedom for shopping, traveling etc.
I learnt driving as soon as I turned 18 and was very fond of it. But, I lost touch after I went to North America. This week, my father has been giving me lessons every morning. It seems that just like cycling and swimming, one does not really forget driving. However, my main challenge has been to overcome the initial hesitation.
As an 18 year old, I was indestructible - no amount of traffic and no fear of damaging my (father's) car bothered me. But, I am paranoid right now [1]. The roads are practically empty in the morning, but it took me two days to even try driving at 3rd gear or above. Also, I will need some serious practice before I can be confident about parking [in fact, I find parking much harder than driving properly].
My plan is to take some driving lessons again after I move to New1 city, even though my father feels it is not necessary. Some of my colleagues at New1 have suggested some reliable teachers.
The next question is to decide which model. I am thinking of a Hyundai i10 sportz.
i10 seems to be a favourite with most of my colleagues and this model has an added advantage of automatic gears [2]. But, some of my friends think that once I overcome my initial fears and get more driving practice, I might not care so much for automatic gears. So, I am still giving this more thought.
But, each time, I start to think about cars and driving, my first inclination is to think of reasons not to buy a car and strategies to manage comfortably without one. Sadly, this time, I have no option but to overcome this fear!
Comments/tips/driving stories are most welcome!
[1] To begin with, this time, I am practicing on my brother's car, and not my father's good old Maruti 800. That itself is a scary proposition!
[2] The other day, my sister-in-law joked that I need not fear driving as driving a car with automatic gears is as easy as driving a toy car at Appu Ghar.
This week, I was back home for a few days to celebrate the festive season. I met some friends and relatives, who are happy about the upcoming move to New1 city and have generously offered congratulatory best wishes and lots of well meant advice. Most of what they say now is exactly what they said two years ago when I was moving to N1. For example,
"You will enjoy the intellectual/cultural atmosphere at N1 city,"
"we will certainly visit you there,"
"the traffic is bad,"
"you should buy a car and learn driving"
and, of course, the classic
"We know so and so over there. Here is their phone number. You must get in touch with them. They are verrrrrrry nice people."
None of the above, except the bad traffic, came to pass. I never really got a chance to enjoy the cultural atmosphere of N1 city, my relatives never visited me, I did not buy a car and I certainly never bothered to contact the people whose phone numbers were given to me. Not that I missed any of the above, but I do find it amusing that the above comments are being repeated verbatim!
But, one advice that I am taking very seriously this time is that of buying a car and learning to drive.
Ideally, I would love to just keep a bicycle and not have to worry about car maintenance, heavy traffic , parking etc. I managed fairly well with a bicycle at my postdoc locations and at N1, but this does not seem feasible at New1 city.
Strictly speaking, one could manage without a car there, but having one does present many advantages. For example, if needed, I can stay in the department till late to finish any important work without having to worry about safety issues and keeping a car does provide an extra degree of freedom for shopping, traveling etc.
I learnt driving as soon as I turned 18 and was very fond of it. But, I lost touch after I went to North America. This week, my father has been giving me lessons every morning. It seems that just like cycling and swimming, one does not really forget driving. However, my main challenge has been to overcome the initial hesitation.
As an 18 year old, I was indestructible - no amount of traffic and no fear of damaging my (father's) car bothered me. But, I am paranoid right now [1]. The roads are practically empty in the morning, but it took me two days to even try driving at 3rd gear or above. Also, I will need some serious practice before I can be confident about parking [in fact, I find parking much harder than driving properly].
My plan is to take some driving lessons again after I move to New1 city, even though my father feels it is not necessary. Some of my colleagues at New1 have suggested some reliable teachers.
The next question is to decide which model. I am thinking of a Hyundai i10 sportz.
i10 seems to be a favourite with most of my colleagues and this model has an added advantage of automatic gears [2]. But, some of my friends think that once I overcome my initial fears and get more driving practice, I might not care so much for automatic gears. So, I am still giving this more thought.
But, each time, I start to think about cars and driving, my first inclination is to think of reasons not to buy a car and strategies to manage comfortably without one. Sadly, this time, I have no option but to overcome this fear!
Comments/tips/driving stories are most welcome!
[1] To begin with, this time, I am practicing on my brother's car, and not my father's good old Maruti 800. That itself is a scary proposition!
[2] The other day, my sister-in-law joked that I need not fear driving as driving a car with automatic gears is as easy as driving a toy car at Appu Ghar.